Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Meltdown

Tian Tian, we know there will be tough times ahead when we meet each other in China, but we are ready to hang in there and comfort you while your little broken heart hurts and then heals as you grieve for your foster family. We expect you to grieve, you are very attached to your foster mother, foster father, and foster sister. Because you have already attached we know you can and will, in time, attach again. We just need to be patient and allow you to see and feel our love and support. We are ready to sing to you, rock you, hold you, and let you see the love in our eyes while you go through the necessary process of grief and healing. We will be patient. We will hold you and support you as you let all your BIG feelings out. 

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Our Adoption Timeline:

Begin Home Study:
August 10, 2009
Liu Chun Tian
Referral Photos:
August 19, 2009
Letter Of Intent:
August 24, 2009
Pre-Approval:
September 2, 2009
(in 9 days)
Home Study Completed:
October 5, 2009
I-800A Sent:
October 6. 2009
Immigration Approval:
November 19, 2009
(in 45 days)
Dossier To China:
December 18, 2009
Log In Date:
December 31, 2009
(in 13 days)
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Letter Of Approval:
3-15-2010
(in 74 days)
I-800 Sent:
3-16-2010
I-800 Approval:
4-1-2010
NVC:
Cabled 4-7-2010
Article 5
Picked Up 5-4-2010
Travel Approval:
5-20-2010
Leaving On A Jet Plane:
June 12, 2010
Forever Family Day:
6-21-2010
American Citizenship:
July 4th, 2010